A Few Good Men

I am fortunate enough to say I have some awesome examples of top of line, cream of the crop, grade A MEN in my life. This post is for them.

The picture to the left is of me and my marvelous Dad. Let me tell you, as far as Dad's go he is the BEST. I know I should be saving this post for Father's Day, but when you feel so lucky to know somebody any time of the year is good to tell it to the world. He made growing up special for me with his acts of creativity. You knew he was thinking about you when he made a poetic scavenger hunt for Easter, personalized a tin with your own set of crayons and coloring books at Christmastime and fashioned homemade wooden decorations you got to help paint and put on the tree. I always loved doing school projects with my dad. One of the most memorable projects we did together was the Battle of Midway. We read about it at the library and collaborated on a model that was out of this world. We made Aircraft Carriers and painted Japanese and American fighter planes. He added the coolest detail by stringing fishing wire across the top of the model to make the airplanes look like they were in battle flight. I give my dad the credit for instilling in me an interest in history and World War II. We have this common bond now that I am an adult because he took the time to make learning fun. He's still doing creative, fun things for his grandchildren. He made them their very own Tree House with a loft and deck. My nephews can use it as an Army Base for their war planning. My nieces can use it as their doll or club house, and yes, the adults like to sit on the deck and hang out in there too.

I must mention one of my favorite things that my dad never fails to do every year. He is the Valentines Day King. He showers all the girls in the family in his own special way. Each one receives a card with a message that uncannily fits their personality, along with flowers or photo books and always chocolate. He will hand deliver these tokens of his love to their work or home as well. I look forward to that holiday because my Dad has made this his tradition of love and it takes you back to when you were a kid and felt safe, secure and loved for just being you. (You know more posts will follow about him, he's quite the man and has some other wonderful traits I'd love to expound on)

In the picture to the right is my wonderful Dad-In-Law and my love able Hubby. Papa Ken as I like to call him has been an influence in my life that I am eternally grateful for. His spiritual guidance and the fact he lives the way he teaches has been a gift from God to behold. His determination to do what is right and fight for the truth has been an example that can best be seen by his writings. Click the link to see what I mean www.voiceofonecrying.com His research and devotion to finding the Truth will challenge you. He's a stability to the family that I believe gets taken for granted. It's easy to do that to people we love, I'm guilty of this, that's why I take the time to post my thoughts. It doesn't matter if they are read or commented on, it is my way of praying, of getting what's inside out and letting those close to me know I'm thinking of them. In my opinion, Papa Ken writes what he learn as an act of love for his family as well as being compelled by God to be obedient. I am thankful he's chosen to give of himself. He's sacrificed much. Thanks Papa Ken!

Of course there is my Hubby who fits in the "Good Men" category. I'd like to say as his wife it has been an honor to be chosen as the one who gets to see the day to day, months to years growth of his manhood. It's kind of neat being witness to the workings of something great. It makes me feel darn good of myself to know I saw the goodness in Nathan when I first met him and my instinct wasn't wrong. We've been together over ten years now and through all the crazy obstacles and challenges life throws at you we can look at each other and know that if all else fails, and the world comes crashing down, we've got each other.

(Of course there is subject matter here that I can write volumes about...future post material)

I feel lucky, blessed, fortunate and like I've won the lottery having these Men in my life. Who are the "Good Men" in your life?

"Cupid" Diem

Valentines Day is just around the corner and the closer the holiday gets the more you see ads targeting Men to get out there and buy something lest you end up in the dog house. It starts in the high end price range with diamonds and if you can't afford those get her lingerie, teddy bears and flowers. Finally, at the lower end of the economic scale you better at the very least buy her a card and chocolate.

I'd like to take a moment and point out that women, including myself love all these material things that say I love you, but (how did you know there would be a but?) I have a few suggestions to make to ALL who love someone. These suggestions, in my mind mean more than the material ways we say I love you and do not hold any monetary value. The value they hold is priceless and fills your loved ones emotional piggy bank, one that means more that any fiscal matter, and the fun part is you don't have to wait till Valentines to fill the piggy bank.... You can do these anytime.

1. The minute your spouse comes home from work grab them and kiss them for at least 4 seconds (4 seconds is longer than you think... 1 one thousand 2 one thousand...)
2. Say I love you everytime you part (Your words have more impact than you may realize)
3. Make something that shows your love. (it could be as simple as a cut-out heart sent in their lunch bag or briefcase/or can be more complicated such as: preparing their favorite dinner, even if you don't particularly like doing it, it shows you stepped out of your comfort zone to let them know you care)
4. Ask your loved one what they want to do and do it with undivided attention for at least 15 minutes. (Children love this. My daughter always wants to me to play in her imaginary world with her horses. Sometimes it's hard for me to be Black Beauty for 15 minutes but it's about her not me for those 15 minutes. It always brings us closer together.

The suggestions are pretty basic, not very hard and very do-able especially in this economy.
So "Cupid" Diem- and seize the opportunities to show your love. The return on investment is worth your time.
Write back and let me know some of the fun ways you show your love! I am always open to new ideas to try out on my loved ones.

"Seven Days Without Wine, Makes One Weak"

Have you had your glass of wine today? If not, go open that bottle and get pouring, I'll wait............

Good, now that you have glass in hand let's talk about your need to go to the wine country. The great thing about 'wine country' is it can be found in places you wouldn't think possible. Wines from Oregon recently have been winning national awards and becoming well known, who knew! And can you believe it I have a winery in my own backyard. OK, not literally in my backyard, but I live in Texas and as big as Texas is it feels it's right there. I only have to drive 15 minutes to transport myself to wine heaven. Colorado, my home state has vineyards and wineries dotting the Western Slope. One of the best wineries in Colorado is located in the city of all places. If you ever get a chance while in Denver, visit Balistreri Vineyards, it's small, off the beaten path, you can almost miss it but what a fun find.

For those who don't see the "need" to tour the wine country in their state I implore you to step out and try it sometime. Not only do you see natures beauty in the growing vines that supply the basis for a vintner's art, you'll get to taste it too. You'll be tasting the unique flavors only your states soil and weather conditions can provide. It puts you in touch with the roots where you decided to make a life. I am no sommelier, but there are subtle difference in taste, aroma, color that let's you know where you are.

I have to thank my husband for infuencing me to drink wine. Before I met him I had the occassional drink around holidays. The people that know me today know me as the person who makes excuses to pop a bottle and enjoy among friends. One my first and most memorable experiences in the wine country are depicted in the pictures above. They are taken in Napa and Sonoma Valley (Sterling-Napa/La Viansa/Sonoma) We drove there with my parents in a rented Buick That had the most uncomfortable seats not to mention was in the category of Old man car. My husband got a speeding ticket and I blame that on 1) the seats being uncomfortable and needing to inflate our flattened butts back to normal 2) We were on that long, straight boring stretch of road in Nevada that begged for some speed 3)Since we had Nevada's racetrack road we wanted to see how fast the 'Old Man' car would go, it was surprisingly speedy as we found out with the cops lights in the rear view mirror. We laughed the whole way to California, joking that the Buick would get us there, not in style... but it would get us there. We strolled San Franscico, ate their delicious cuisine, pigged out on Ghiradelli Chocolate, Saw Golden Gate and Presidio. Drove the Muir highway by the sea on our way to wine country. When we got there we visited so many tasting rooms we were light hearted to say the least. We ate cheese, bread, proscuitto to sop up the wine in our stomach and went out for more the next day. It was the perfect trip. One that got us started visiting other wineries in other states.

Check the state you live in and I bet you will find someone living the wine making dream. If you've been able to tour your state's wine country let me know your experience and where the unique places are. There is something about getting out there tasting what man does with nature that binds folks together.

La Dolce Vita

I don't know about you, but when our family goes on vacation we sniff out the food first thing. We look in the hotel books, ask the conceirge, and ask other hotel guests what's good around here and if you can flag down a local they always tell you the best spots. We have made such lasting memories on our hunt for food. We'll get together and say, "Remember the fun we had at La Cocita, or wasn't the squash stuffed ravioli out of this world at Trios."

There's something about sitting around the table, catching up, experiencing the cuisine that brings out the best in our family.

One of our favorite places to go everytime we are in Puerto Vallarta is an Italian place called La Dolce Vita (The sweet life). They have very good pizza and it is right across the street from the ocean. You can see them creating wonderful pies and smell them as they bake in the wood fired oven while looking out the open arched windows and see the tourists and locals bustling up and down the sidewalk. It is a very good place to watch the sunset and begin your vacation.

Look at everyone's faces. HAPPY, full of life, free to be themselves. No outside worries creeping in, no thoughts of what is going on back home. Just living in the moment, enjoying one another, creating an environment of laughter and fun.

If you haven't sat around the dinner table with the family in a while or gone out to lunch with a friend to catch up and have been to busy to really enjoy food and conversation, make the time in the near future. The simple act of sharing with someone else will only "sweeten your life."

What have been some of your food/vacation memories?